By understanding what a person suffering from anorexia is going through, you can effectively approach the sufferer and possibly convince them to seek
professional help as soon as possible.
People suffering from anorexia are continuously battling an enemy that does not exist. This enemy is the fear of being
over weight, and the belief of being over weight. Because of this, as well as the physical effects that they are feeling from lack of nutrition and overall well being,
suffers from anorexia are generally stressed and depressed. Their self esteem is also very low. By understanding this, approaching a loved one with anorexia can be
more effective.
Speak to the person suffering with anorexia in private. Understand that there disorder is usually a secretive problem. Confronting them in
public will only embarrass them, and make them feel betrayed.
When you open the conversation with the person, avoid starting the conversation with words
like "you". Instead, use words like "I". An example would be; "I have noticed that you are not eating enough and feel a little worried about your health." Let let
person understand how concerned you are and that if he or she needs your help, you will be there for the person.
Be prepared for the person suffering from
anorexia to go into denial. Understand that they might feel ashamed about their disorder. When this happens, don't argue with the person. Just be a good listener and
convey to him or her that you will be there to help no matter what.
If you feel the conversation is going nowhere, don't show your frustration. Be patient. Think
of this situation as the first step in opening the door to a positive start towards helping your loved one. Show that you will always be supportive. By taking this
approach, you are more likely to help the person suffering form anorexia take the first step in seeking professional help.
